The Conscious Love Show

QUESTION - What to Do When He Goes Dark for Days?

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a frustrating relationship dynamic: What to do when he goes dark for days? If you’ve ever experienced the emotional rollercoaster of being left in the dark, unsure of where you stand with someone, this episode will offer the clarity and guidance you need.
We’ll explore the reasons why someone might pull away, the signs of emotional unavailability, and how to protect your own emotional well-being in these situations. I’ll also share how to set boundaries, communicate your needs, and decide whether to invest further in the relationship or move on. If you’ve been feeling uncertain about how to respond when he goes quiet, this episode will help you navigate the situation with confidence and self-respect.

Choosing the Right Partner, Part 1: Universal Aspects of Compatibility

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner.  Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person.
In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone.  In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an individual sense and how to choose the partner that's right for you specifically. 

QUESTION - How To Stop My Anxiety From Ruining a Relationship?

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a question that many people with anxiety face: How to stop my anxiety from ruining a relationship? If you’ve ever found your anxiety taking over in a relationship, causing overthinking, insecurity, or unnecessary conflict, this episode will help you gain control and find peace.
I’ll share strategies for managing anxiety in a relationship, how to communicate your feelings without overwhelming your partner, and how to build trust and security with both yourself and your partner. We’ll also dive into understanding how anxiety stems from past experiences and how to reframe those fears to create healthier dynamics. If you’re ready to stop letting anxiety dictate your relationships and start fostering love, calm, and connection, this episode will give you the tools to create more balance and harmony.

The #1 Way We Sabotage a Relationship Before It Even Has a Chance to Grow

You’ve felt it—that slow fade, the sudden shift in energy, the uncertainty that creeps in when a connection that once felt promising starts to feel… off.
You start wondering if you’re asking for too much. You question whether to speak up or stay silent. And deep down, you just want to feel chosen without having to chase.
This is the moment when we unconsciously sabotage connection the most. 
This episode is for anyone who’s tired of overthinking, tired of pretending you don’t care, tired of trying to “play it right” while your deeper truth goes unspoken.
If you’ve ever found yourself in the grey zone—unsure whether to wait, reach out, pull back, or move on—this conversation will meet you right there. Not with rules or strategies, but with clarity, truth, and the kind of self-respect that doesn’t flinch in the face of uncertainty.

QUESTION - How to Stand Out in Modern Dating and Dating Apps?

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle the challenge of standing out in modern dating—especially in the world of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt lost in the sea of profiles or wondered how to make a meaningful connection in a swipe-happy world, this episode is for you.
I’ll share practical strategies on how to present your authentic self, write a profile that attracts the right kind of attention, and navigate the virtual dating world with confidence. We’ll also explore how to shift the focus from superficial connections to deeper, more meaningful conversations that lead to real relationships. Whether you’re new to online dating or have been navigating it for a while, this episode will offer you the tools to stand out and attract the love you truly deserve.

Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?

You’ve been patient, understanding, and endlessly hopeful—believing if you just give him enough time, he’ll finally see your worth. But deep down, you wonder: Am I being loving… or just losing myself?
 
In this episode, “Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?”, we dive into the confusing space between staying open and staying stuck. We’ll explore the subtle but critical line between patience rooted in love and waiting that comes from fear of not being chosen. You’ll discover the signs that his uncertainty isn’t about timing—it’s about incompatibility—and how every day you spend in limbo teaches him how to value you.
Most importantly, we’ll talk about what it takes to choose yourself with confidence, release the fantasy of “one day,” and create space for a relationship that’s ready for you now.
If you’ve ever felt trapped between hoping he’ll step up and fearing you’re wasting your time, this conversation will bring the clarity and courage you’ve been searching for.

QUESTION - How Long Should I Wait for Him to Choose Me?

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a question many women face: How long should I wait for him to choose me? If you’ve been waiting for a partner to make a decision about your future together, or wondering if you’re putting your life on hold while he takes his time, this episode will help you gain clarity.
I’ll guide you through understanding the dynamics of waiting for someone to choose you, what it truly means to be chosen, and how to evaluate whether waiting aligns with your needs and desires. We’ll discuss how to honor your worth and set boundaries, while also learning how to move forward with or without him. If you’re stuck in limbo and unsure whether to keep waiting or walk away, this episode will offer the tools to make a decision that honors your heart and your future.

Why am I still Attracting This? When you thought you outgrew it—but the pattern shows up again…

You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again.
And then… it happens again.
You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming.
But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shrinking. Questioning yourself. And you’re back in something that feels hauntingly familiar.
This episode is for the woman who thought she was past this.
Who’s asking herself:
– Why am I still attracting this?
– What am I missing?
– How did I not see this coming?
I’ll show you why your self-trust might not be broken at all—and how attracting a familiar pattern isn’t always a sign of failure. In fact, it might mean you’re finally ready to break it.
This isn’t about blame. This is about clarity, compassion, and claiming your power—again.

QUESTION - Is My Independence Keeping Me Single?

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive into a thought-provoking question: Is my independence keeping me single? If you’ve ever wondered whether your strong sense of independence is making it harder to attract or maintain a relationship, this episode will help you explore that dynamic.
I’ll discuss the balance between maintaining your autonomy and being open to partnership, how to navigate the fear of losing your independence in a relationship, and how to create space for love without compromising who you are. We’ll also explore how to align your desires for independence and connection in a way that supports both your personal growth and your ability to attract a fulfilling relationship. If you’ve been questioning whether your independence is a barrier to love, this episode will give you valuable insights to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

Why He’s Not Committing (Even If He Loves You)

Why do some men pull away even when love is present?
In this episode, we break down one of the most confusing dynamics in modern dating: when emotional connection exists, but commitment never fully arrives. 
I’ll unpack the deeper fears, unspoken blocks, and hidden conflicts that cause men to hesitate—even when they genuinely care. You’ll learn how to recognize these patterns early, avoid getting trapped in limbo, and position yourself for the kind of partnership that doesn’t leave you waiting and wondering. 
If you’ve ever been stuck in the almost, this is the clarity you’ve been looking for.