The Conscious Love Show

Best of 2025 - Situationships: How to let go of what no longer serves you

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Ever been in a situationship?  Of course you have! 
Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake.  They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value.
It's not about judging these relationships or yourself for being in them but truly understand what this relationship was for, the purpose it served in your life, and being able to recognize when it's run it's course and extract the value from it.  When you do this, every "situationship" you find yourself in will be short lived, incredibly valuable, and accelerate your journey toward the right person.  When you don't know how to do this, these relationships become highly destructive and crushing to your worth and value.
I hope you enjoy this exciting discussion as we break down the situationship and how to use it to empower yourself and accelerate your growth.      

If the Love You Were Seeking Didn't Arrive This Year...

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If the love you were seeking didn’t arrive this year, this episode is for you.
Not to explain why.
Not to tell you what you did wrong.
Not to convince you that “everything happens for a reason.”
Just to remind you of something most people forget when things don’t unfold the way they hoped.
If you’re ending this year feeling tender, disappointed, reflective, or unsure how to carry yourself into the next one, this is a simple message from the heart, meant to help you exhale.
No advice.
No strategy.
No fixing.
Just a reminder that wherever you are right now, it's ok to be you. 
 
With love and best holiday wishes, thanks for listening this year.
Shane

You Never Wanted Love — You Just Wanted to Be Chosen

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What if the thing you’ve been calling “love” your whole life… wasn’t actually love at all?
What if the intensity, the longing, the fear of losing someone, the obsession with being “enough,” the way your entire body lights up when a man chooses you — and collapses when he doesn’t — wasn’t about love…
…but about something far older, deeper, and more painful?
In this episode, we’re exploring a pattern almost every woman carries yet almost none ever name.
A pattern so woven into your relationships that you don’t even know you’re doing it.
A pattern that shapes who you chase, who you tolerate, how you attach, and why you stay.
 
And the real question isn’t:
“Why do I love him so much?”
It’s:
“Why do I fall apart when I’m not chosen?”
 
What happens when that spell finally breaks?
What do you find on the other side of the chase — in the quiet space where the illusion falls away?
And what does love feel like when it’s no longer built on fear?
Listen closely.
This one may change the way you understand every relationship you’ve ever had.

The 7 Feminine Power Codes that Men Can't Resist

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If you've ever wondered exactly what it is that calls for a man's devotion, respect, commitment, and trust, the answer is in this episode. 
There is a lot of information in the mainstream culture right now and most of it is honestly very disempowering for women in their relationships with men. In this episode, we'll debunk the common myths that are perpetuated by supposed alpha males and dating "gurus" and break down the seven timeless principles that signal feminine power, worthiness, and move a man toward the deepest levels of devotion.
These 7 power codes are a cheat sheet for what the highest caliber of men respond to but even more than that, they are the ways that a woman honors herself in relationship with men and signal to her own unconscious that she is worthy of love and devotion.
And truthfully, that's a much bigger flex than any man's approval.
Tune in and see which ones you embody most and which you're still growing toward. This is sure to be an enlightening and inspiring listen.  
 

Shane's Diary Entry #5: A Course in Miracles, Spiritual Awakening, and the Holy Relationship

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Most people know my work.
Very few know the worldview underneath it.
In this episode, I’m opening the door to the part of my life I rarely talk about — the part that shaped everything I teach, everything I love, and everything I’ve built.
I’m sharing the real spiritual journey behind my work… the revelations, the breakdowns, the corrections, the contradictions, the experiences that shattered me and the ones that rebuilt me. Not the polished version. The actual one.
If you’ve ever sensed that there’s something deeper behind the way I explain relationships, love, purpose, and healing… you’re right. And today, I’m finally naming it.
This isn’t religion.
It’s not dogma.
It’s not “believe this or else.”
It’s the path I walked to remember who I am — and the lens that opened everything in my life.
If you’ve felt the pull toward something deeper but didn’t have the language for it… you’re going to feel this one.
And make sure you listen to the end — I have something special for those of you who want to step into this work with me in the new year.

The 10 Things Men Say That Confuse Women (and What They Actually Mean)

Women everywhere swear men have lied to them.
But what if that’s not what actually happened?
In this episode, I'm breaking down the 10 statements men use most often that leave women overthinking, spiraling, or holding onto hope… and revealing the real meaning beneath them.
Not the feminine interpretation.
Not the emotional projection.
The actual male coding behind the words.
You’ll learn why most men aren’t lying to you at all—why the masculine recoils at deception—and why women still end up feeling blindsided, disappointed, or misled. The truth is simpler and more shocking: men speak in emotionally safe half-truths, and women fill in the blanks with meaning that was never there.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why did he say that?” or “What did he mean?” this episode will change the way you hear men forever.
This isn’t about blaming men or shaming women.
It’s about decoding the disconnect—so you finally stop confusing ambiguity for intimacy.

Men Will Not Approach You in 2025: How to meet men in the wild...

We’ve entered an era where men have stopped approaching women—and not because they’ve lost interest. They’ve been taught to stay quiet, to avoid being “creepy,” to hide their attraction in the name of respect.
The result? A generation of people starving for real connection while pretending they don’t care.
In this episode, we breaks down why modern dating feels so disconnected—and how you can reclaim the lost art of meeting people in real life. I’ll reveal the unspoken cultural agreements keeping men silent, why women now hold the key to invitation, and the simple energetic cues that open the door to real connection again.
If you’re ready to step out of the apps and back into the wild, this episode will teach you how.

How to Train a Man: The Feminine Formula for Lasting Devotion

Many women believe that if a man doesn’t know how to love her, he isn’t the one.
But what if that’s exactly why so many women end up with men who stop showing up—who pull away, disconnect, or go emotionally flat after the spark fades?
This episode isn’t about control. It’s about awakening the part of a man that wants to rise for you… and the part of you that knows how to call it forward.
If you’ve ever wondered why love starts hot and turns cold—or why your devotion isn’t met with his—you’re going to hear something today that changes how you see men, and speaks to what real feminine power looks like in relationship.

Shane's Diary Entry #4: Reclaiming My Masculinity in a Culture that Wants Men to Be Like Women

Modern culture tells men to be softer, safer, and more sensitive—until we lose respect for the very men who listen.
In this episode of Shane’s Diary, I share my personal journey of reclaiming my masculinity after years of suppressing it to be “good.”
From growing up under the shadow of a hyper-religious mother who called every masculine impulse sinful, to living with a father who embodied its most toxic extremes—I learned to distrust my own nature.
When I found spirituality, I thought peace meant weakness and gentleness meant goodness. I became the “nice guy.” I lost my fire. And it almost cost me my marriage.
This is the story of how I got it back.
Of what it really means to be a conscious man in a world that tells men to be more like women.
And why reclaiming your masculine power isn’t dangerous—it’s divine.

How to Know a Man is Ready for Commitment (He's Not Afraid—He's Just Not Ready for You)

Every woman wants to know if the man she’s falling for is ready for something real.
But what if the signs you’ve been taught to look for are wrong?
In this episode, we deep dive on what readiness for commitment actually looks like in a man—why he can love you deeply and still not choose you, and what shifts everything when he finally does.
This one might challenge what you think you know about love, timing, and what makes a man stay. But when you really get it, it will change everything.