The Conscious Love Show

Beyond Charm and Chemistry: Attracting a Partner Who is Truly Emotionally Available

Why do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners.
You’ll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or inconsistency, and how to break the cycle. Together, we’ll uncover the deeper connection between self-worth and the types of partners we attract—and how healing our inner patterns can transform our love lives.
We’ll also dive into practical strategies for recognizing emotionally available partners and redefining what chemistry means in a way that aligns with your long-term goals for love. If you’re ready to move beyond the surface and attract a partner who shows up with kindness, consistency, and vulnerability, this episode is for you!

Showing Authentic Interest and Keeping the Upper Hand in Dating

How do you show genuine interest in someone without feeling like you’re giving away all your power? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the delicate balance between authenticity and maintaining confidence in dating. You’ll learn how to express your enthusiasm and stay true to your nature while setting healthy boundaries that keep you grounded and respected.
We’ll debunk the myths about “playing hard to get” and the idea that men only “like to hunt,” offering practical strategies for communicating with clarity and strength. Whether you’re texting first, showing excitement, or navigating mixed signals, this episode is your guide to fostering real connection without compromising your self-worth.
If you’ve ever second-guessed yourself or felt insecure when interest wasn’t immediately reciprocated, this episode will empower you to stay confident, intentional, and in control.

Is the Potential Enough? How to know when to walk away...

Conscious Relationships are about being a space for two people to grow together but what rate of growth is truly acceptable? 
When someone says they want to change and become better but the change doesn't seem to be happening very quickly, how much time and space should we really give? What kinds of things should we tolerate and what other things are truly deal breakers?
This is such a confusing dynamic, especially when it's clouded by strong feelings for someone and a sincere desire to see the relationship go somewhere. It can be so easy to give a person way too many chances.
On the other hand, when we are too reactive and unwilling to be empathetic about someone's human limitations, it can be really easy to call out problems and leave a relationship that did have real potential had we been open to working on it. 
This episode offers a clear guide to navigating these confusing dynamics and identifying true potential early on so you can invest your energy in a relationship that can truly become something great!

How to Keep the Spark Alive as a Relationship Grows

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It can be so confusing when the fire that had effortlessly pulled us together in the beginning starts to fade and the relationship no longer feels the same anymore.
When our partner no longer shows the attentiveness and affection that they did in the beginning and the love that made the relationship worth it in the first place feels like it's dying and no matter what we do, we can't seem to get it back. 
At this point, we start to question the relationship and wonder why we're even in it. We imagine what might be available for us outside of the relationship and think that, with the right person, that spark may never fade.
But the fact is, the spark will always fade as our relationship outgrows the initial stages and to reclaim the depth and passion we want with our partner, we have to grow into a new phase together. 
This episode serves as a guide for navigating these stages of growth together and building a love that can truly last.  Happy listening <3 

Dating Fatigue: How to Keep Hope Alive After Repeated Disappointments

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If you’re feeling exhausted by the idea of starting over, navigating the dating pool, or investing in relationships only to face uncertainty or pain, you’re not alone.
In this episode, we explore how romantic setbacks can leave you questioning whether it’s worth it and offer practical insights on how to stay open to love without compromising your healing or peace of mind. Join me as we discuss strategies for overcoming emotional exhaustion, setting new relationship standards, and reigniting joy and vitality within yourself, regardless of relationship outcomes.

Healing Heartbreak and Becoming More Secure than Before

In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive deep into the journey of healing after heartbreak. Whether you’re reeling from a recent breakup or still processing old wounds, this conversation offers insight into how to move through the pain and emerge even stronger. Shane Kohler explores the emotional process of letting go, the hidden growth opportunities within heartbreak, and the essential steps to build a more secure, empowered sense of self.
You’ll learn how heartbreak can become a catalyst for profound personal transformation—pushing you to cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, security, and resilience. Shane also shares strategies to stop seeking external validation, so you can create space for authentic love to enter your life. Tune in for a heart-centered, compassionate dialogue designed to help you heal, grow, and step into the next chapter with confidence.
If you’re ready to turn your pain into power, this episode is for you.

Healing the Wounds Created by the Masculine

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In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we’re diving deep into a topic that touches so many women on a personal level—healing the wounds created by the unhealthy masculine. Throughout history and personal experience, women have often been left carrying emotional scars from unhealthy masculine energy, whether it stems from family, romantic relationships, or societal conditioning.
While there are countless good men out there, these unhealed wounds can keep you stuck in patterns of mistrust, fear, or disconnection, making it hard to recognize and be open to healthy male energy when you encounter it. But healing is possible.
Join me as I guide you through a step-by-step exploration of how to begin healing these wounds. We’ll discuss how past experiences with unhealthy masculinity affect your current relationships, and I’ll share tools and insights on how to reclaim your sense of safety, trust, and worth. This is about stepping into a place of empowerment, where you’re able to recognize and attract the kind of love you truly deserve.
Don’t miss this essential conversation—tune in and start your journey toward healing, wholeness, and conscious love.

The Essential Qualities of a Conscious Woman

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In this episode we explore the attributes that define a woman who is deeply attuned to her personal growth, emotional intelligence, and authentic self-expression.
Drawing from universal spiritual principles and  practical experience, we outline the key characteristics that enable a woman to cultivate meaningful connections and embody true love. From self-awareness and vulnerability to emotional resilience and compassion, we discuss how these traits not only enhance her relationship with others but also deepen her relationship with herself.
Whether you’re single and seeking love or in a committed relationship, this episode serves as an empowering guide for women who want to elevate their consciousness and foster deeper, more fulfilling partnerships and men who are seeking a conscious partner. 

The Essential Qualities of a Conscious Man

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Let's dive deep into the essential qualities that define a conscious man.
In this episode, we explore the attributes that empower men to build authentic connections, embrace vulnerability, and foster healthy relationships. 
We're clearly defining the qualities that not only enhance personal growth but also contribute to more fulfilling partnerships. Whether you’re a man looking to bring forth your highest self or a woman seeking a conscious partner, this episode is packed with insights to inspire deeper connection and growth.
Join in on this riveting discussion about what it means to truly embody conscious masculinity!

Releasing the Need to Be Chosen and Learning to Choose Conscious Love

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In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional wounds that shape our need to be chosen in relationships. Whether it’s from childhood abandonment, rejection, or feeling unworthy, many of us carry unresolved pain that drives us to seek validation through being selected by a partner. This unconscious desire to be chosen often leads to unhealthy dynamics, where we sacrifice our needs or stay in unfulfilling relationships out of fear of rejection or being alone.
We’ll explore how these early wounds, often tied to mother or father wounds, create a cycle of approval-seeking behavior. Instead of choosing relationships based on mutual respect, growth, and shared values, we end up prioritizing external validation. This need to be chosen reinforces the idea that love is something earned, rather than something we consciously choose and co-create.
Through healing these core wounds and embracing self-worth, we can begin to reclaim our power in relationships. We’ll discuss how developing self-awareness and practicing self-love allows us to let go of the need for external approval and make intentional, conscious choices in love. By choosing from a place of wholeness and authenticity, we can attract healthier, more balanced relationships that nurture personal growth and connection.