The Conscious Love Show

The True Nature of Love

This episode invites you to explore the profound difference between love that is authentically expressed and the fear-based behaviors that often masquerade as love in relationships.
We dive deep into what genuine love looks like—how it nurtures, heals, and strengthens the bonds between partners. Conversely, we examine the manipulative tactics and survival strategies that arise from fear and insecurity, leading to power struggles and disconnection.
This episode is a journey toward understanding how to cultivate relationships based on true connection, trust, and mutual respect, moving beyond the patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional turmoil. Tune in to discover how to transform your relationships by embracing the true nature of love.
And thanks for listening. 

Trauma Responses: Why we attract unfulfilling love

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If you've experienced patterns of unfulfilling love in your life, this episode will offer you some important insight. 
When we are looking for love, we are often tuning into subtle cues that reflect our past pain.  Believe it or not, this is often what generates our attraction to people.
Sometimes, we are not seeking fulfilling love but rather we are seeking someone with whom we can play out these past patterns, someone who will create in us the familiar feelings of loss or longing that we've known throughout our lives. 
Unconsciously, we associate these feelings with love and when we meet someone who doesn't create these feelings in us, the resulting experience is a lack of attraction or interest.
In this episode, I'm explaining the subconscious dynamics of how this operates and sharing practical steps you can take to heal this.
Thanks for listening, lots of love,
Shane 

A Man's Journey to Commitment

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If you've been feeling like there aren't a lot of commitment-ready men out there, I hear you.
Men crave connection and they want commitment just as much as women do but they have a very different process of getting there. 
While women have often been encouraged to seek relationship and commitment from a very young age, men have often been encouraged to do the exact opposite and when they've expressed their sensitivity and need for love it's often been regarded as weakness and met with ridicule.
Still, the raw need for connection lives within every man and when a woman can create a safe space for him to express this vulnerable need, he will often fall in love and commit to her for life.
In this episode, I'm sharing how to do that.
I hope you enjoy it, and thanks for listening.       

Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies, Polarity, and their Toxic Aspects

Understanding polarity is a profound conversation that gives us insight into attraction, sexuality, intimacy, and how relationships can develop in healthy ways and also toxic ways.
The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is at the core of how we relate with each other, it drives our attractions, it informs our highest actions and also our lowest impulses. 
I hope you enjoy this episode and that it helps you understand how to attract the ideal partnership you're seeking, deepen the intimacy in your existing relationship, and foster the highest good for all your relationships.  

Suppression of Feminine Power and Awakening the Divine Feminine

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Feminine power is an uncomfortable thing in our world.  Women are afraid to use it because of the intense backlash they get when they do and men are afraid to experience it because it shines a light on their unconscious insecurities.  Yet, conscious love can only be experienced in a relationship where the feminine power is expressed and honored by both partners.  This means there is healing that needs to happen for both men and women. 
 
This episode will reveal the journey to healing for all people and show women how to embody more of their feminine power and men to heal in the presence of it. 

How to Make Deeper Connections in Love and Dating

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Connection is a fundamental human need and we are in a crisis of it!  Most of us struggle to feel deeply connected and most of our relationships are surface level and don't meet our deepest needs. 
In dating, we struggle to bridge the gap and feel genuinely connected to the people we date and many of us in long term relationships feel completely disconnected from our partners. 
We struggle to feel seen, heard, understood and truly known by the people we love most, by the people we need to be most connected to.
This episode will give you clear guidance on how to bridge the gap and make deeper connections in the dating world and beyond.

What is a Conscious Relationship (and how to create one)

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What is a conscious relationship and what makes it different from any other relationship?  
Today is Fatima and I's four year wedding anniversary, going on 8 years together, and we've learned a lot about this topic through our various adventures and challenges! 
In this episode, I'm sharing our story of creating and sustaining the conscious love we have today.  The good, the bad and the ugly! 
Whether you are single or in a relationship, your journey to conscious love starts right now!  There is never a time when you are not creating it and this episode is going to give you the clearest representation of that journey that I've ever recorded.
I had a lot of fun putting this one together and I hope you can share some laughs and some feels as you hear the story.
Much Love <3 
Shane 

Powerful Communication to Create Conscious Love

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Most of us don't realize how much power we actually have to move a relationship in the direction we want it to go! 
 
When a relationship isn't meeting our needs, many of us are likely to play manipulative games, withhold love, fawn and pander, some of us even going so far as to lie, cheat, or end the relationship altogether simply because we don't know how to communicate in a way that will motivate our partner to step up for us. 
 
Whether you're getting to know someone new or with your partner of many years, if you're not practicing clear, direct, and powerful communication with them, you're inviting resentment, disconnection, and a lack of intimacy to grow between you. 
 
By using simple communication tools we can open up a new world of connection in the relationships that mean the most to us or the new relationships we're building and in this episode, I'm sharing how to approach these conversations in a way that leads to the results we all crave from our love lives.
 
This is a powerful conversation about creating true depth and intimacy with those we love or those we hope to love in the near future.  Enjoy :)   

How To Invite a Man to Step Up For You in the Ways you Want Most

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Do you want the man you're dating to plan better dates and show more initiative to move the relationship forward?  Would you like men on dating apps to take action and ask you out or follow up more often?  Would you like to get approached more in the real world, make connections at the gym or at your favorite coffee shop? 
 
If you're looking for a simple way to motivate men to take action with you, this episode has the answer. 
 
Whether you’re wanting more urgency for people to get off the apps and meet in person, you want to get approached more ”in the wild” or you want the person you’re with to be more invested in planning and executing exciting things for you to do together, this episode is sharing all the secrets to what makes a man take action and have him be excited about doing so.

Sacred Sexuality: How to have deeper, more connected sex

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What makes the difference between good sex and Great sex?  This episode is all about that. 
I've found, in my many years doing relationship and intimacy work, that most people, both single and in long term relationships are missing out on so much in their sex lives. 
Single people often feel disillusioned by their sexual experiences, feeling they are short lived and many times not even that good to begin with while married couples often experience a dwindling of their sex lives the longer they are together, ranging from non-existent, to boring and unfulfilling. 
In this episode, I'm sharing the secrets to a deeply fulfilling sex life that fulfills your deepest fantasies and meets your most heartfelt emotional needs. 
I hope you enjoy it and thanks for listening!