Episodes

Tuesday Nov 15, 2022
How to Heal Your Relationship to Men with Emily DeBouver
Tuesday Nov 15, 2022
Tuesday Nov 15, 2022
In this episode I bring my friend and fellow coach, Emily DeBouver, in for a fascinating conversation about healing your relationship to men. In this episode, Emily shares about growing up with an abusive father and how that shaped the way she saw men, the journey she had to go through to heal from this, plus so many fascinating insights and tools that she uses to serve her clients.
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed my conversation with Emily. Connect with her on IG: @em.debouver and TikTok: @em.debouver

Tuesday Nov 08, 2022
How to Create More Confidence and Become More Attractive with Shane Kohler
Tuesday Nov 08, 2022
Tuesday Nov 08, 2022
In this episode, we explore what confidence is, why it's important, how to create more of it, and how it relates to attractiveness. What's great about this episode is we explore all the things that make up attraction that are not superficial and actually have way more power to create magnetism in dating. Also includes an interesting discussion about attraction and masculine & feminine energy in the Q and A section.

Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
In this episode, we explore the two ways we can process information, through our conscious, physical mind and through our intuition, we understand the purpose and place of both, and uncover how to rely more on intuition in the places where it really matters.
We also go into an in-depth discussion on narcissism and healing through narcissistic abuse during the Q and A portion. I hope you enjoy this value-packed episode!

Tuesday Oct 25, 2022
Tuesday Oct 25, 2022
In this episode, we explore the simple yet profound principle of becoming really clear about the reality of a situation and then dealing with it on that basis only, rather than allowing our future projections or fantasies to color the picture. We also explore how to create clarity in the early stages of dating when you don't know where you stand and how to prevent our past trauma from limiting our future.

Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
Developing Trust to Find Love with Shane Kohler
Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
In this episode, we explore trust as a prerequisite to creating love. It is through learning to trust that we are able to release everything that doesn't serve us and accelerate our way toward love. It is our lack of trust and all the ways we overcompensate for it that get in our way and derail our journey.

Tuesday Oct 11, 2022
The Real Way to Manifest Love with Shane Kohler
Tuesday Oct 11, 2022
Tuesday Oct 11, 2022
In this episode, we explore the true process of bringing love into your life. What does it mean to manifest love or anything for that matter? Can we really do it and if so, how? All of that explored in this episode plus major pitfalls that disrupt our manifestations!

Tuesday Oct 04, 2022
Being a High Value Partner and Attracting High Value in Return with Shane Kohler
Tuesday Oct 04, 2022
Tuesday Oct 04, 2022
Exploring how we present ourselves as "high value" in the dating world and how doing so will attract the quality of relationship that we are looking for.

Tuesday Sep 27, 2022
Tuesday Sep 27, 2022
In this episode, we explore how shame is formed early in life, how it takes shape throughout our life, and the impact this has on our relationships. We explore how to work with it to experience more authenticity and confidence in who we are, which ultimately leads to more success in our love lives.

Tuesday Sep 20, 2022
Tuesday Sep 20, 2022
In this episode, we explore how to navigate the difficult emotional experiences in dating in a way that leaves us feeling empowered, positive about who we are, and optimistic about the future--being aware of the fear when it arises and learning to release it and have it be replaced by love. To the degree that we can do this, we grow toward love and invite more of it into our lives.

The love advice most coaches are too afraid to give...
Most relationship advice will tell you what to do differently. This show will tell you why you keep doing what you do — and what it's actually costing you.
My name is Shane Kohler and I've spent the last decade helping women understand the unconscious patterns driving their relationships and what it actually takes to change them. Every week, I bring you brings direct, unfiltered insight into the psychology of love, attraction, and commitment — the conversations most coaches are too afraid to have.
This isn't a show about finding the right person. It's about becoming someone who can recognize them, choose them, and build something real with them. If you're done settling, done shrinking, and done wondering why love keeps falling short — you're in the right place.
New episodes every week. Follow on Instagram @the_living_relationship and send your questions for the monthly Q&A to info@thelivingrelationship.com






