The Conscious Love Show

Your Past: The only obstacle to everything you desire

In this episode, we explore how our past experience shapes our thoughts, feelings, and the way in which we see ourselves. This then determines what we believe is possible for us, what we are willing to go for in life, and where we hold back.  The possibilities for your future are only as big as your belief in yourself is and that belief comes out of your identity, which was shaped by your past. 
Join us for a riveting discussion on how past experience determines the possibilities for our future and how we can release our limiting identity to make space for a life and love that we formerly did not even think was possible. 

The True Path to Love in 2023

For those who want to start the year off right!  We're looking at what leads to love and what doesn't.  What are the thoughts, feelings, and approaches that streamline love coming in to your life and what is it that slows you down or makes you miss it all together?  How can you maximize your possibility this year to live in love and invite in all the amazing experiences and opportunities that come with it?  That's what this episode is all about!  Enjoy

Setting the intention for Love and bringing in the New Year with Shane Kohler

In this week's episode, we discuss the process of setting intentions from a grounded, connected, and spiritual place so that they have the highest likelihood of coming true.  We talk about how to relate to our intentions and how they help us grow and for those who are seeking love, we discuss how to position yourself so that your intention for love is likely to come true in 2023.  We also have a great discussion about overcoming anxious attachment in the Q and A section.   

Help! I can’t meet any good people!!! What should I do?

For anyone who's struggling to find the right person, especially during the holidays...
 
In this episode, we explore what to do when hitting a wall in dating.  Instead of continuing to force what's not working, how do we redirect?  Where do we put our energy and focus?  And how can we be confident that love is on its way to us without constantly trying to meet someone new?  This is a powerful lesson around managing your own energy and raising you vibe without getting off track for the love you're dreaming about.  

Vulnerability: The Gateway to Love with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore the importance of vulnerability in healing and attracting love.  We learn what vulnerability is, what it is not, and how it shapes the way we see ourselves and relationships.  We see how it is essential to our healing and vital to creating love.   

I Want What’s best For You, the ultimate relationship mindset with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore how the mindset of wanting what's best for the other person makes you most receptive, available, and attractive for love.  We discuss how to remain empowered while wanting the best for someone else and how that enables you to get what's best for you also.  Includes an interesting discussion about men being overly sexual in early stages of dating in the Q and A section.  

Belief Systems, Behavioral Adaptations and Payoffs--the addictive cycle that keeps your from love with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore how belief systems form in early life and then perpetuate themselves throughout our lives.  We see how many if not all of what we "choose" is less of a choice and more of a reaction to our beliefs.  We see that these reactions take us away from love and everything we want in life and how if this cycle is not interrupted, we will isolate ourselves from love.  We also work with some amazing questions in the Q & A portion.  Enjoy! 

Letting go of Instant Gratification and Opening Up to True Love with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore the dilemma of needing to escape our bad feelings and run toward good ones.  We discover why this dilemma is so disempowering, how it perpetuates the experience of unworthiness, and how to regain our power while caught in this trap.  We also explore themes like what makes someone really want you and how to protect yourself from manipulation. 

How to Heal Your Relationship to Men with Emily DeBouver

In this episode I bring my friend and fellow coach, Emily DeBouver, in for a fascinating conversation about healing your relationship to men.   In this episode, Emily shares about growing up with an abusive father and how that shaped the way she saw men, the journey she had to go through to heal from this, plus so many fascinating insights and tools that she uses to serve her clients.
 
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed my conversation with Emily.  Connect with her on IG: @em.debouver and TikTok: @em.debouver   

How to Create More Confidence and Become More Attractive with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore what confidence is, why it's important, how to create more of it, and how it relates to attractiveness.  What's great about this episode is we explore all the things that make up attraction that are not superficial and actually have way more power to create magnetism in dating.  Also includes an interesting discussion about attraction and masculine & feminine energy in the Q and A section.