The Conscious Love Show

What Demonstrates Real Potential (And What Destroys it!)

In today's episode, we explore 2 very important questions:
1. How do I know if there is real potential with someone I'm dating?
2. What happens in my relationship with them that destroys that potential or prevents the relationship from working out. 
After receiving thousands of questions from my community, I realize that so many of them center around these two things.  I met someone and it was going so well, then it fell apart.  What the hell happened? 
And in today's episode, I'm doing my best to answer that!  I'm covering how you know that someone you're dating isn't wasted time but actually someone worth investing in and what might happen as the relationship deepens to destroy what was once possible for you.  Thanks for listening, enjoy!  

We Attract (and are attracted to) our Greatest Opportunities for Healing

You've had some pretty BAD relationships haven't you?  Liars, cheats, narcissists, the freaking worst!  But what if these "bad" experiences weren't as bad as you thought they were?  What if you invited this toxic person or this damaging relationship into your life to give you an opportunity to heal something? 
We all have challenging experiences, especially in relationships!  But when we understand what these experiences are for and we learn how to find their benefit and extract the essential lessons from them, they elevate us to a new experience in our lives. They invite us into a new paradigm of who we can be and from that place, what we attract and what we're attracted to changes.
This episode is sharing some of the most essential lessons about the journey to love.  Enjoy it and share it with a friend!   

How to Have ”The Talk” Without Feeling Needy or Desperate

This episode is a deep dive into all the nuance of having "The Talk".
If you're wanting to know where this relationship is going, how they really feel about you, and what you can expect from them long term, this episode is like a cheat sheet for all of those questions.  We explore finding clarity on what to say and how to say it, being vulnerable and also empowered in your approach, regulating your own emotional experience of anything that might happen in the conversation, and healing any shame you have around your needs and wants in a relationship so you can feel deserving of the things you're asking for.
This "talk" can be the most difficult part of navigating a new relationship so don't feel alone in this process.  Listen to this episode to get your mind and heart in the right place and be ready to create the connection you truly desire most. 
 

The Single Most Attractive Quality that a Human Being can Embody

Want more people to find you sexy?  What to turn more heads when you walk into a room?  Want others to feel the desire to be closer to you and go deeper with you?  Want a promotion at work? 
In this episode, we are exploring the single quality that can make all of these things possible.  This is the quality that all dating articles unanimously claim is the most attractive and the single most important thing for people to experience from you in dating.  To have long term respect and appreciation in a relationship, this quality cannot be missing.  And yes, even at work, this quality will get you a promotion, even over someone more qualified than you!
 
It's a relationship skill and a life skill and to learn what it is and how to access it more often (even all the time) check out this week's riveting new episode!   

Navigating the 4 Dimensions of Human Experience: How to end your suffering and live a bold and inspired life.

Did you know you're a 4 dimensional being?  It sounds weird when we say it like that but the truth is we all occupy 4 dimensions of experience at all times: Body, Mind, Emotion, and Spirit.
The problem is, to a large degree, we are not present to these different dimensions of our experience.  We instead experience ourselves as an isolated body, having complex thoughts and emotions, with little real connection to anything spiritual (as much of a nice idea as it might be) and this is the source of all of our suffering.  We don't know ourselves as we truly are and we don't have access to the fullness of ourselves.
My work over the years has been to have people gain more access and balance within these different realms of our experience and as we do, we experience more freedom, confidence, aliveness, and personal power.  The ability to create or manifest the life you are seeking will come from knowing yourself more fully and having more access to the deepest aspects of yourself.  In this episode, I break down this process in incredible detail and I know you're going to love it!    

Accessing Empowered Brainstates to feel Connected, at Ease, and bring forth your Best Self

Did you know that throughout the day we transition through many different brainwave states?  From sleeping, to waking, to working, to relaxing, all of these activities require different levels of brain activity.  The sad truth is that most of us live in a consistent state of fight or flight (survival) throughout most of our waking hours and this activates stress hormones in the body which cause us to act out in irrational ways and bring our worst to every day situations.  In love and dating, being in a state of fight or flight will have catastrophic results!  And that's whether you're in a committed relationship or just getting to know someone.
 
In this episode, we explore the different brainstates and how to maintain a regulated system that feels great in your body and allows your most beautiful qualities to shine through with no filter.  

The Holy Relationship: A union based in wholeness

In this week's episode we are exploring the maximum manifestation of love we are able to experience in our human lives: The Holy Relationship.  Most human relationships are what Shane refers to as ego-entanglements, which are basically manipulative arrangements made through the ego to have it's perceived needs met.  These are castles made of sand that eventually wash into the sea because they aren't founded in anything real.  The Holy Relationship is a representation of true love.  In this episode, we learn what that relationship is and understand the process of growing into it.   

The Most Important Decision you will ever make...

The most important decision you will ever make is not the person you will marry, the career you choose, where you live, or how you spend your time.  It is a decision that literally defines every aspect of your life and determines the quality of your life and love in every aspect.  Want to know what that decision is?  Well this week's episode is an in depth exploration into that question.  Strap in, because this one is a big one! 

The Lessons of Love: How to elevate yourself into the loving partnership you’ve been waiting for.

This episode is a deep dive into the lessons of love and the journey through them.  Each experience we have, positive or negative, is shaping us for the love and partnership we are seeking.  On the journey, our role is to consciously go through each experience and learn the lessons as they are presented and as we do this, we are accelerated towards love.  This conversation is a personal favorite and one of the most important to creating a conscious relationship.   

Why Men Commit and Why They Don’t with Michael Desanti

In this special interview, I have my dear friend and colleague Michael Desanti joining me for a conversation where we dive into the psyche of men and why they do and don't commit.
Michael is a men's success coach and has worked with thousands of men around the world.  He is the co-founder of The Vital Guide, Author of the book New Man Emerging, and creator of the Find Your Tribe program.  It was such a pleasure having him on the show and I so enjoyed our discussion.  I hope you'll appreciate this interview and the wisdom he shares about a man's journey to become ready for commitment. 
Order his book New Man Emerging on Amazon and learn more abut his work at www.thevitalguide.com