The Conscious Love Show

Belief Systems, Behavioral Adaptations and Payoffs--the addictive cycle that keeps your from love with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore how belief systems form in early life and then perpetuate themselves throughout our lives.  We see how many if not all of what we "choose" is less of a choice and more of a reaction to our beliefs.  We see that these reactions take us away from love and everything we want in life and how if this cycle is not interrupted, we will isolate ourselves from love.  We also work with some amazing questions in the Q & A portion.  Enjoy! 

Letting go of Instant Gratification and Opening Up to True Love with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore the dilemma of needing to escape our bad feelings and run toward good ones.  We discover why this dilemma is so disempowering, how it perpetuates the experience of unworthiness, and how to regain our power while caught in this trap.  We also explore themes like what makes someone really want you and how to protect yourself from manipulation. 

How to Heal Your Relationship to Men with Emily DeBouver

In this episode I bring my friend and fellow coach, Emily DeBouver, in for a fascinating conversation about healing your relationship to men.   In this episode, Emily shares about growing up with an abusive father and how that shaped the way she saw men, the journey she had to go through to heal from this, plus so many fascinating insights and tools that she uses to serve her clients.
 
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed my conversation with Emily.  Connect with her on IG: @em.debouver and TikTok: @em.debouver   

How to Create More Confidence and Become More Attractive with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore what confidence is, why it's important, how to create more of it, and how it relates to attractiveness.  What's great about this episode is we explore all the things that make up attraction that are not superficial and actually have way more power to create magnetism in dating.  Also includes an interesting discussion about attraction and masculine & feminine energy in the Q and A section.

Distinguishing ego thought from higher intuitive thought and learning to receive guidance through it with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore the two ways we can process information, through our conscious, physical mind and through our intuition, we understand the purpose and place of both, and uncover how to rely more on intuition in the places where it really matters.  
We also go into an in-depth discussion on narcissism and healing through narcissistic abuse during the Q and A portion. I hope you enjoy this value-packed episode!      

Learning to let all things be as they are and deal with them on that basis with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore the simple yet profound principle of becoming really clear about the reality of a situation and then dealing with it on that basis only, rather than allowing our future projections or fantasies to color the picture.  We also explore how to create clarity in the early stages of dating when you don't know where you stand and how to prevent our past trauma from limiting our future. 

Developing Trust to Find Love with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore trust as a prerequisite to creating love.  It is through learning to trust that we are able to release everything that doesn't serve us and accelerate our way toward love.  It is our lack of trust and all the ways we overcompensate for it that get in our way and derail our journey.  

The Real Way to Manifest Love with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore the true process of bringing love into your life.  What does it mean to manifest love or anything for that matter?  Can we really do it and if so, how?  All of that explored in this episode plus major pitfalls that disrupt our manifestations! 

Being a High Value Partner and Attracting High Value in Return with Shane Kohler

Exploring how we present ourselves as "high value" in the dating world and how doing so will attract the quality of relationship that we are looking for. 

Working with shame and understanding how it shapes our relational experiences with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore how shame is formed early in life, how it takes shape throughout our life, and the impact this has on our relationships.  We explore how to work with it to experience more authenticity and confidence in who we are, which ultimately leads to more success in our love lives.