Episodes

Friday Feb 14, 2025
QUESTION: How to Feel Complete Without a Relationship
Friday Feb 14, 2025
Friday Feb 14, 2025
In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive deep into a powerful question: How to feel complete without a relationship? If you’ve ever felt like your sense of fulfillment is tied to being in a relationship, or struggled with the idea of being single, this episode is for you.
I’ll share key insights on how to cultivate self-love, discover your personal passions, and create a life that feels whole – with or without a partner. Tune in to explore the importance of inner fulfillment and how to embrace your own worth and completeness from within. Get ready to shift your perspective and find peace in your own company.
Join me for a transformative conversation that will help you reconnect with yourself and realize that you are more than enough, just as you are.

Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
The Fine Line Between True Interest and Emotional Manipulation
Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
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What is the line between someone showing genuine interest and just saying what you want to hear to disempower you? How do you know someone is worth the investment of your energy, intention and heart and or if they're just love-bombing and making empty promises. This is a fine line but in this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how you know a relationship is worth opening your heart to and how you can identify the red flags that will only cause you pain.

Friday Feb 07, 2025
QUESTION: Should a Woman Chase a Man?
Friday Feb 07, 2025
Friday Feb 07, 2025
You’ve met someone you’re excited about—but he’s not making a move. Do you step up and chase him, or do you wait and risk losing the connection?
In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most debated questions in dating: Should a woman chase a man? I’m breaking down the difference between healthy pursuit and over-investment, why chasing often leads to the opposite of what you want, and what to do instead to inspire a man to step forward.
If you’ve ever found yourself initiating, overextending, or wondering why the more effort you put in, the less he seems to respond, this conversation will shift your entire perspective.
🎧 Listen now to learn how to attract a man’s genuine investment—without chasing.
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Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
Why You're Not Meeting the Right Person [3 Specific Reasons]
Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
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You swear you’re ready for love, so why does it feel like you’re either attracting the wrong people or struggling to find anyone who truly fits? You meet someone promising, but something always feels off—or you find yourself walking away for reasons you can’t quite explain.
What if the real problem isn’t where you’re looking, but how you’re looking? What if the standards you’re holding onto are actually keeping love out? What if your fear of getting it “wrong” is the very thing stopping you from getting it right?
In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the hidden patterns that keep so many people stuck in an endless cycle of searching, swiping, and second-guessing. If you’ve ever felt like love is just out of reach, this conversation might just change everything.
🎧 Listen now—you might be closer to love than you think.

Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
How to Ask for What You Need with Confidence and Clarity
Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
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Have you ever hesitated to ask for what you need in a relationship? In this episode, we’re diving into how to ask for what you need with confidence and clarity—without the frenzy, fear, or emotional buildup.
Whether you’re navigating a situationship, a committed relationship, or any connection where your needs matter, this episode will empower you to speak up with grace and confidence—strengthening your relationships while staying true to yourself.

Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
The Core Mistakes of the Feminine: Unbalanced Giving, Boundaries, and Compassion
Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
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Why do women often find themselves overextending, over giving, and losing themselves in the name of love, care, or connection?
In this episode, we dive deep into the core mistakes of the feminine, exploring how this imbalance can lead to burnout, resentment, and even enable harmful behaviors, and why it’s essential to reclaim feminine energy with discernment and power.

Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Reclaim Your Energy: How to Stop Chasing and Start Attracting in 2025
Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
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As the new year begins, it’s time to shift your energy and step into a more empowered version of yourself. In this episode, we’re diving into the art of stopping the chase—whether it’s for love, validation, or approval—and embracing the mindset that allows you to attract what you truly deserve.
We’ll explore why overthinking and unmet expectations often lead to burnout in relationships and how you can break the cycle by focusing on yourself first. You’ll learn practical strategies to relax, set boundaries, and open yourself to receiving love and connection without sacrificing your peace.
2025 is your year to reclaim your power, trust your worth, and let love flow naturally into your life. Join us for a conversation that will inspire you to stop chasing, start attracting, and thrive in both love and life.

Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
How Important is Physical Attraction? What the science says...
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
In this thought-provoking episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore one of the most debated questions in modern relationships: How important is physical attraction? From first impressions to long-term chemistry, physical attraction plays a unique role in how we connect with others. But what does the science say?
Join us as we dive into fascinating research on the psychology of attraction! Exploring how physical attraction evolves in healthy relationships and what it really takes to sustain lasting intimacy.
If you’ve ever wondered whether “the spark” matters more than compatibility, this episode offers the clarity you’ve been looking for. Perfect for anyone navigating the modern dating landscape or seeking a deeper understanding of love’s many layers. Don’t miss it!

Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
How to Know If a Relationship Is Worth the Effort
Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
Relationships take work, but how do you know if the effort you’re putting in is truly worth it? In this episode, we dive into the signs that a relationship has the potential to grow versus when it may be time to let go. We’ll explore the essential indicators that demonstrate real potential while also examining common red flags that drain your energy and leave you stuck. Whether you’re in a relationship that feels uncertain or simply want tools to navigate love with more clarity, this episode will provide the insight you need to make the most empowered decisions about your future.

Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
Embracing a Season of Aloneness and Growing through Solitude
Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
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The holidays can be a time of joy and connection, but for many, they may highlight feelings of loneliness.
Whether you’re single, away from loved ones, or simply seeking more peace during the holiday rush, this episode will inspire you to find meaning and fulfillment in your own company, setting the tone for the future connection that you invite into your life.
Solitude is a profound place to awaken aspects of ourselves that have been untapped and this episode will help you shift a period of loneliness into a profound season of growth and self-love, creating space for healthier connection in your future.

The love advice most coaches are too afraid to give...
Most relationship advice will tell you what to do differently. This show will tell you why you keep doing what you do — and what it's actually costing you.
My name is Shane Kohler and I've spent the last decade helping women understand the unconscious patterns driving their relationships and what it actually takes to change them. Every week, I bring you brings direct, unfiltered insight into the psychology of love, attraction, and commitment — the conversations most coaches are too afraid to have.
This isn't a show about finding the right person. It's about becoming someone who can recognize them, choose them, and build something real with them. If you're done settling, done shrinking, and done wondering why love keeps falling short — you're in the right place.
New episodes every week. Follow on Instagram @the_living_relationship and send your questions for the monthly Q&A to info@thelivingrelationship.com






