The Conscious Love Show

Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies, Polarity, and their Toxic Aspects.

I've been geeking out on this topic ever since my discussion with Liz last week and in this week's episode, I'm sharing some of my deepest insights on this topic and how we can leverage these energies within ourselves to become more attractive and magnetic, to find the right partner for us, and to heal everything that is unhealed within us.  I really enjoyed this episode and I know you will too.  Thanks for listening! 

Embodying Feminine Energy to Attract a Masculine Partner with Liz Haber-Zambrano

In this very special session I have the opportunity to interview my dear friend, mentor, and coach Liz Haber-Zambrano.  Liz has been a part of my life for over a decade, she is a beautiful lady, full of insight and wisdom, and someone I am honored to have on the show.  In this episode, we have a very in depth discussion about what it means to embody a feminine essence and how that creates attraction with the Masculine.  We discuss the cultural and societal dynamics that impact this and we discuss the individual journey of healing and growing into authentic partnership.  This was a discussion I thoroughly enjoyed hosting and was even quite enlightening for me.  I know you'll enjoy it too!   

I like you, I want you, I love you but that doesn’t make this a Free Ride

Most of us have been afraid to let someone know how we truly feel about them and we've acted out in all kinds of crazy ways because of this.  Playing hard to get, not calling or texting when we want to, sometimes we even encourage them to date someone else just to hide the fact that we really want them to date us.  And the reason for this is that we've associated authenticity with a loss of power.  We feel that to be honest with them is to lose a benefit in the relationship. 
Today's episode is about undoing that.  It's about bringing authenticity and clear communication back to our love lives without diminishing our power.  If you want to know how to be clear and honest about your true feelings while creating mutual respect in the relationship and setting it up for long term success, this episode is for you!    

What Demonstrates Real Potential (And What Destroys it!)

In today's episode, we explore 2 very important questions:
1. How do I know if there is real potential with someone I'm dating?
2. What happens in my relationship with them that destroys that potential or prevents the relationship from working out. 
After receiving thousands of questions from my community, I realize that so many of them center around these two things.  I met someone and it was going so well, then it fell apart.  What the hell happened? 
And in today's episode, I'm doing my best to answer that!  I'm covering how you know that someone you're dating isn't wasted time but actually someone worth investing in and what might happen as the relationship deepens to destroy what was once possible for you.  Thanks for listening, enjoy!  

We Attract (and are attracted to) our Greatest Opportunities for Healing

You've had some pretty BAD relationships haven't you?  Liars, cheats, narcissists, the freaking worst!  But what if these "bad" experiences weren't as bad as you thought they were?  What if you invited this toxic person or this damaging relationship into your life to give you an opportunity to heal something? 
We all have challenging experiences, especially in relationships!  But when we understand what these experiences are for and we learn how to find their benefit and extract the essential lessons from them, they elevate us to a new experience in our lives. They invite us into a new paradigm of who we can be and from that place, what we attract and what we're attracted to changes.
This episode is sharing some of the most essential lessons about the journey to love.  Enjoy it and share it with a friend!   

How to Have ”The Talk” Without Feeling Needy or Desperate

This episode is a deep dive into all the nuance of having "The Talk".
If you're wanting to know where this relationship is going, how they really feel about you, and what you can expect from them long term, this episode is like a cheat sheet for all of those questions.  We explore finding clarity on what to say and how to say it, being vulnerable and also empowered in your approach, regulating your own emotional experience of anything that might happen in the conversation, and healing any shame you have around your needs and wants in a relationship so you can feel deserving of the things you're asking for.
This "talk" can be the most difficult part of navigating a new relationship so don't feel alone in this process.  Listen to this episode to get your mind and heart in the right place and be ready to create the connection you truly desire most. 
 

Situationships: How to let go of what no longer serves you

Ever been in a situationship?  Of course you have! 
Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake.  They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value.
It's not about judging these relationships or yourself for being in them but truly understand what this relationship was for, the purpose it served in your life, and being able to recognize when it's run it's course and extract the value from it.  When you do this, every "situationship" you find yourself in will be short lived, incredibly valuable, and accelerate your journey toward the right person.  When you don't know how to do this, these relationships become highly destructive and crushing to your worth and value.
I hope you enjoy this exciting discussion as we break down the situationship and how to use it to empower yourself and accelerate your growth.      

The Single Most Attractive Quality that a Human Being can Embody

Want more people to find you sexy?  What to turn more heads when you walk into a room?  Want others to feel the desire to be closer to you and go deeper with you?  Want a promotion at work? 
In this episode, we are exploring the single quality that can make all of these things possible.  This is the quality that all dating articles unanimously claim is the most attractive and the single most important thing for people to experience from you in dating.  To have long term respect and appreciation in a relationship, this quality cannot be missing.  And yes, even at work, this quality will get you a promotion, even over someone more qualified than you!
 
It's a relationship skill and a life skill and to learn what it is and how to access it more often (even all the time) check out this week's riveting new episode!   

Navigating the 4 Dimensions of Human Experience: How to end your suffering and live a bold and inspired life.

Did you know you're a 4 dimensional being?  It sounds weird when we say it like that but the truth is we all occupy 4 dimensions of experience at all times: Body, Mind, Emotion, and Spirit.
The problem is, to a large degree, we are not present to these different dimensions of our experience.  We instead experience ourselves as an isolated body, having complex thoughts and emotions, with little real connection to anything spiritual (as much of a nice idea as it might be) and this is the source of all of our suffering.  We don't know ourselves as we truly are and we don't have access to the fullness of ourselves.
My work over the years has been to have people gain more access and balance within these different realms of our experience and as we do, we experience more freedom, confidence, aliveness, and personal power.  The ability to create or manifest the life you are seeking will come from knowing yourself more fully and having more access to the deepest aspects of yourself.  In this episode, I break down this process in incredible detail and I know you're going to love it!    

Accessing Empowered Brainstates to feel Connected, at Ease, and bring forth your Best Self

Did you know that throughout the day we transition through many different brainwave states?  From sleeping, to waking, to working, to relaxing, all of these activities require different levels of brain activity.  The sad truth is that most of us live in a consistent state of fight or flight (survival) throughout most of our waking hours and this activates stress hormones in the body which cause us to act out in irrational ways and bring our worst to every day situations.  In love and dating, being in a state of fight or flight will have catastrophic results!  And that's whether you're in a committed relationship or just getting to know someone.
 
In this episode, we explore the different brainstates and how to maintain a regulated system that feels great in your body and allows your most beautiful qualities to shine through with no filter.